What Happens When We Never Socialize

The demand to be human is to socialize with each other.

Donny Setiawan
2 min readNov 7, 2021
Photo by mauro mora on Unsplash

What comes to your mind, when you see a friend or yourself who almost all his life rarely or never leaves the house even if it is just hanging out with friends, in a crowded place?

How many teens don’t like hanging out with their peers and instead prefer to be alone in their room playing video games or doing activities they love?

Rarely use smart phones even though they are just connected to each other via social media?

The question is, why are the most successful people in the world mostly introverts or more generally those who prefer to be alone?

What’s wrong with not having friends?

At this age I prefer to pay attention to how to have quality relationships with those closest to me.

Sometimes my old nature still sticks with me. Even though I’m actually better than yesterday.

Actually many questions in my head, what happens to me if I never socialize with people?

Am I going to be the dumbest human being?

Will I be forgotten?

Can I never be like other humans?

Generally what I often feel is shock and fear of other humans. The outside world that I could never guess how it would turn out to be.

I don’t know why people who prefer to pay attention to themselves are more dizzy to control what is around them.

Back to the initial principle, humans always want to live safely while in the world.

He didn’t want to be trapped. Don’t want to suffer. Don’t want to be left behind.

However, in reality, it is their fear that leads to the three above.

We often make mistakes. Humans can never be perfect. Every day there are challenges in the world. Humans are always punished.



Donny Setiawan

Penggemar Bahasa, Sastra, dan Seni. | Language and Art enthusiast.